a community for women choosing themselves again
MILADEE created Our Ladies for women who are ready to take small moments back for themselves — not when life is perfect, not when everything is done, but right here, in the middle of real life.
This is where the movement begins.
our ladies is our public community for women around the world choosing themselves again after years of taking care of everyone else.
No pressure. No perfect routine. No need to become someone else. But just one small promise when you become part of this movement:
"No more abandoning myself"
what it means to join our ladies
Being one of Our Ladies means you believe self-care does not have to be grand to matter.
Sometimes it is 30 minutes with your phone down.
Sometimes it is closing your eyes after a long day.
Sometimes it is saying, “I deserve comfort too.”
Sometimes it is choosing rest before you are completely exhausted.
Our Ladies is for the woman who gives a lot, carries quietly, and is learning to come back to herself one small moment at a time.
the 30 minutes for me challenge
We have come up with this challenge as an entry point to our ladies' movement. We want more and more women to participate, even just by starting self-care for 30 minutes.
The whole point is to take 30 minutes only for yourself every single day.
No scrolling. No replying. No working. No explaining. No guilt.
Just 30 minutes to pause, breathe, rest, journal, pray, stretch, sip tea, sit quietly, or enjoy your After Hours™ self-heating eye mask.
This is not about doing self-care perfectly. It is about proving to yourself that your comfort belongs on your list too. Every single day.
#30MinutesForMeChallenge
how to join the 30 minutes for me challenge?
1. Follow & subscribe MILADEE
Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok + subscribe to our email on the website so you can be part of the movement.
2. Take 30 minutes for yourself
Use After Hours™ if you have it, or simply create a quiet 30-minute moment that feels like yours. It can be anything (you doing journaling, sipping coffee, anything that makes you feel that that 30 minutes is fully yours).
3. Share your 30-minute moment
Post it on your story, feed, Reel, or TikTok.
4. Tag MILADEE
Tag us so we can see and celebrate your moment.
5. Use our hashtags
Use #30MinutesForMe and #OurLadiesByMiladee.
Selected posts may be reposted, highlighted, or featured on MILADEE’s social media and website.
why join the challenge?
Choosing yourself is easier when you are surrounded by women doing the same. By participating, you are not just helping yourself but influencing more women to do just the same!
Aside from this, here are the rewards you will get from us:
🌙 Weekly chance to be featured
Each week, selected women may be featured on MILADEE’s social media or website. Your story matters, and we want to celebrate the small ways women are choosing themselves around the world.
🎁 Monthly After Hours™ giveaway
Every month, 3 Our Ladies will be selected to receive 1 box of After Hours™.
💌 Exclusive 10% bundle discount
Our Ladies can receive a private 10% discount on After Hours™ bundle offers. The code is valid for 30 days only, so you can use it while your self-care promise is still fresh.
📌 Social media highlight
Even if you are not selected for a full feature, your 30 Minutes For Me moment may be added to our Our Ladies highlight on social media.
💸 Share with your girl friends and earn
Our Ladies can receive an exclusive code to share with friends. When someone orders using your code, you can earn 5% commission as our thank-you.
Commission is counted only on completed, non-cancelled, and non-refunded orders.
what should i post?
To join the 30 Minutes For Me Challenge, your post does not need to be curated or perfect. We do not want you to be performative and that is not the goal of this challenge.
We want to see you deciding to have 30 minutes of yourself, own it, and enjoy it.
Your post should reflect what makes you feel enjoy and happy.
You can share a video of you reading, just staring into the abyss, talking with friends, doing coffee date alone, or anything that speaks to you caring yourself.
You are not limited. You are free to be yourself.
We will not only choose the perfect angle, curated Pinterest-worthy entries. We will choose those who feel like they really align with your self-care.
This movement is not about being perfect. But rather to encourage women to. choose 30 minutes for themselves, honestly, and full of freedom.
our ladies around the world
MILADEE is gathering women from different countries, backgrounds, ages, and seasons of life.
Students. Mothers. Grandmothers. Wives. Founders. Office workers. Creatives. Sisters. Daughters. Women starting over. Women slowing down. Women who are tired of waiting for permission to rest.
Every woman’s 30 minutes will look different. That is the point.
What makes us stronger is not that we live the same life. It is that we are all learning to choose ourselves in our own way.
The more women from all over the world participate, the more we empower women to take space and choose themselves every day.
want the full miladee experience?
Our Ladies is where the movement begins.
First Ladies is our private VIP circle for women who want deeper access, better perks, and a closer place in the brand.
Right now, you can become a First Lady by choosing our highest After Hours™ bundle.
Once you bought the Choosing Myself bundle, you instantly become a First Lady.
Here are the perks of becoming one:
👑 Exclusive bundle offers
Private discounts, special bundles, and free gift opportunities reserved for First Ladies.
🎁 Birthday or membership anniversary surprise
Receive a little MILADEE thank-you on your special month or membership anniversary.
🌙 First access to future product launches
Be among the first to know what MILADEE is creating next.
💌 Lady Insights
Private founder notes, self-care reflections, product updates, and community letters sent to your inbox.
📸 Priority feature consideration
First Ladies may receive priority consideration for MILADEE features, stories, and campaigns.
💸 Better earning opportunities
As MILADEE grows, First Ladies will receive expanded referral, affiliate, or ambassador opportunities.
First Ladies are not just customers. They are the women helping shape the next chapter of MILADEE. And because of that, we take care of you and help you grow.
we're not here to tell women to do more. you're already doing enough.
MILADEE exists to remind you that your comfort, your softness, your rest, and your quiet moments matter too.
You do not need to earn rest by finishing everything first. You can start with 30 minutes. And you do not have to do it alone.
Welcome to Our Ladies.